Autumn Awesomeness The Normans

If, like us, you’re in need of cooling down during this hot, dry July, then you’ll be eager to immerse yourself in our latest wedding blog - a throwback to rainy October, when Lucy and Arron celebrated all that is awesome about autumn.

Cascading fairylights in The Normans wedding venue  Ceremony Barn

As with all love stories at The Normans, this rainy-day romance began in The Cottage where Kelly Hanks Hair Design and Amy George Makeup readied Lucy and her ladies for the day ahead.

Bride Lucy getting ready in The Normans Cottage
Bride Lucy's wedding dress hanging up in The Normans Cottage
Stunning accessories on show as the bride readies for the wedding ceremony

Lucy dressed for the aisle in a stunning Moonlight Bridal gown from Rachel Ash Bridal.

“I knew I wanted something with sleeves, but I wasn’t sure on what shape sleeves… and I also never really wear dresses, so I was a tad nervous!” says Lucy. “But as soon as I tried it on, it just suited my figure and made me feel very elegant, confident and comfortable. So, after a few months of trying other dresses on, I always kept coming back to this one knowing that it really was the dress for me!”

Bride Lucy in her wedding dress in The Normans Cottage

While Lucy was wearing white, her bridesmaids were rocking bold, beautiful autumnal colours.

“We decided to go for a mix of styles and autumn colours,” explains Lucy. “So, I was happy for the girls to find there own!”

The girls, we have to say, did a great job; sourcing their attire from an assortment of outlets, including ASOS, Shein and SilkFred. Well played, ladies.

Bride and bridesmaids in The Normans wedding venue bridal cottage

Meanwhile, groom Arron, pictured here in his slick three-piece tweed suit from House of Cavani, awaited guests in the cosy environs of The Cow Stalls (which, admittedly, look like something straight out of Wuthering Heights, but we can assure you they’re very warm and welcoming...)

Groom Arron suited and booted in The Normans Cow Stalls

Even in October, The Normans Courtyard retains its verdant green aesthetic (and looks all the better when it’s adorned with personal touches from the couple).

Personalised order of the day on display in The Normans Courtyard
The Normans Courtyard awaits wedding guests
This way to The Normans - guests are guided towards the wedding venue

The floral arrangements in The Ceremony Barn were particularly striking.

“I always knew we would go for deep autumnal colours since I’ve always loved this colour pallet,” explains Lucy. “I love it when the leaves start to turn and it’s a mix of oranges, reds and yellows. I don’t know much about different flowers but I trusted our florist [the fantastic Floral & Lace].”

Stunning flower arrangements in The Normans Ceremony Barn

The reds and oranges of the floral displays perched on the barrels at the end of the aisle contrasted wonderfully with the sparkling fairy lights.

We also loved the red petals that lined the aisle.

The Normans Ceremony Barn in all its sparkling glory

And, needless to say Lucy, wearing her Moonlight Bridal dress, wowed as she entered The Ceremony Barn…

Bride and Groom meet at the top of the aisle in The Normans Ceremony Barn

The touching ceremony culminated with the exchange of rings…

The exchange of the wedding rings in The Normans Ceremony Barn

… and was sealed with a kiss.

You may now kiss The Bride

We always make a point of saying that The Normans is an all-seasons, all-weather wedding venue - and this proved to be true on Lucy and Arron’s wedding day. While the drizzle prevented post-ceremony drinks taking place in The Courtyard, The Ceremony Barn was quickly and discreetly turned around for guests to enjoy drinks and canapes…

Bride and Groom all smiled at The Normans wedding venue

… and a cracking (weatherproof) group photo.

The Barn was turned into a reception area after the wedding ceremony
The Ceremony Barn is a great place for a group shot in the event of bad weather

Speaking of photos, the rain didn’t deter the bride, groom and their entourage from nipping out to the nearby farm buildings with photographer Lianne Gray for some great shots.

Umbrellas at the ready outside The Normans wedding venue

It’s not everyday our roller-shutter doors are made to look so chic…

Singing in the rain at The Normans wedding venue

… and it’s strange to think that a cool, grey day could make for such an effective backdrop for photos of bride and groom…

The couple enjoy some quiet time outside The Normans wedding venue
The elements didn't dampen the spirits of bride and groom outside The Normans wedding venue

… Arron and his groomsmen also took the opportunity to clamber all over a tractor …

Groom and groomsmen chilling out next to big red tractor outside The Normans

… before the whole gang risked their lives by posing next some extremely dangerous industrial agricultural equipment (we’re kidding - no brides, grooms, bridesmaids or groomsmen were harmed in the taking of this photo).

Great photo opportunities at The Normans wedding venue

And, somehow, Lucy and are bridesmaids looked even more stunning in the agri-chic environs of the farm’s dryer shed.

Bride and bridesmaids pose for the camera at The Normans wedding venue

Once photos were finished, the doors to The Grain Shed were opened.

Credit to Lucy - her and her florist absolutely nailed the room’s décor.

“I had seen the Normans had the option of canopy flowers above the tables,” explains Lucy. “We decided to make a feature of them running down the middle, again with autumnal colours and wild style flowers. The other tables were just dressed with some loose flowers in our vases and bottles we hired.“

“I loved our table runners,” adds Lucy. “It was a bit of a gamble to find the right colour - the ones I found were from somewhere in Europe, so it was touch-and-go whether they would arrive [on time] and would be the right colour. Luckily, they suited the colour scheme perfectly and added a pop of colour to the wooden tables!”

“We also had cocktail jars as favours in the autumn colours too. They were so cool - people could shake them at the table and drink there and then.”

Colourful florals hang from the table gantries in The Normans Grain Shed
Foilage and florals lined the elevated gantries in The Grain Shed

“Arron’s table plan was so fun and showed his passion for cycling,” adds Lucy. “He added peoples faces to the ‘teams’ [tables], which made it more interesting for guests to find their seats!”

“The food was more than we imagined. The Hog & Apple really treated us to an amazing dinner, which everyone commented on!” enthuses Lucy. “We knew we wanted an Asian-style sharing starter - we got engaged in Bali - and I think [sharing platters] help break the ice for guests who haven’t met before.”

“The trio of pork was also incredible - everyone raved about the pulled-pork bonbon, it was epic! As for the dessert, we knew the main would be hearty so went for something light and fun - mini white-chocolate lollipops with raspberry and lemon. It was beautiful on the plate and was really light and refreshing!”

Lucy and Arron were lucky enough to have a good friend who could bake a mean cake (shout out to Lexi!). This three-tiered triumph celebrated Lucy & Arron’s love of music.

Fantastic wedding cake sits in The Normans Grain Shed

And while it’s almost a shame to chop up a thing of such beauty, we can assure you Lexi’s cake tasted delicious. But, perhaps more importantly, the cake cutting announced the start of evening merriment…

Cutting the cake at The Normans wedding venue

… namely, the first dance under the twinkling canopy of fairy lights.

Bride, groom and the first dance in The Grain Shed at The Normans
The service we received from The Normans was 5-star - we couldn’t of asked for more. Sharon and the team went above and beyond to make our day special. We had so many comments about how beautiful and different The Norman’s is. It will always have a special place in our hearts!
— The lovely Lucy

Summer stunners at The Normans

The grey skies of late don’t exactly scream ‘Summer!’, but we can’t escape the fact that we’re only a few weeks away from basking in glorious sunshine. (This is definitely going to happen.)

So, while we dream of warmer climes, let’s cast our minds back to a balmy Tuesday in August last year, when Anna married Matt at The Normans…

Bride Anna and Groom Matt share a moment at The Normans wedding venue

Although there was a smattering of rain on this summer day, this couple still sizzled with style.

Case in point: bride Anna in her stunning gown by Zavana Bridal (pictured here by Dominic Wright). Anna found her dress in Chloë Jane Bridalwear, although, somewhat amazingly, it wasn’t her first choice…

“When my mum and I were walking around the bridal shop choosing dresses for me to try, I said I didn’t like the dress in the window at all,” laughs Anna. “Three dresses later - and a minor meltdown about not liking any - and the girls from Chloe Jane brought me ‘that dress in the window’! I tried it on and instantly knew it was my dress. It was love at second sight! They really do know their stuff!” 

Bride Anna in her stunning wedding dress

Anna’s hair was styled by Amy Lopez from Westrow Street Lane in Leeds.

“She was fabulous, she helped me with me pre-wedding hair care and colour too!” says Anna.

Make-up was the remit of Naomi Stone: “Naomi was great and got the perfect balance of ‘natural glam’ for the Big Day! She even chose and matched my bridesmaids with their wedding day lipsticks, from a photograph!”

Anna’s beautiful bridesmaids, meanwhile, wore dresses from Joy’s Bella Bridesmaids.

“Hannah made the whole experience so easy and fun,” recounts Anna. “They have such a range of different styles!”

Bride Anna and her bridesmaids at The Normans wedding venue

We’re sure groom Matt won’t mind us saying that Anna stole the show, but he still made quite the impression in his fitted three-piece suit, complete with chequered waistcoat and bespoke lining. He also rocked up in a stretched Hummer (which is still stuck on a tight corner just up the road from the venue).

(It’s not really, don’t worry.)

Groom Matt cutting a dash
Here comes the groom. In a Hummer. The Normans wedding venue
Loving the lining of the groom's suit. The Normans wedding venue
Groom and groomsmen await the arrival of wedding guests at The Normans

Anna eschewed the Hummer but still made quite the arrival, sparkling brighter than the plenitude of fairy lights in The Normans iconic Ceremony Barn.

Bride Anna walks down the aisle in The Normans wedding venue Ceremony Barn
Wedding guests stand as bride Anna walks down the aisle at The Normans wedding venue

She met her groom at the top of the aisle, and there began a heart-warming ceremony.

“We loved our ceremony reading,” says Anna. “We had our maid of honour and grooms man stand at the front and read their own interpretations of love. This was followed by eight people from the congregation standing in turn to read what love meant to them! It was beautiful to hear each persons thoughts and feelings, many of who shared their wisdom and wise words for a happy marriage!”

We couldn’t agree more!

Bride meets groom in The Normans wedding venue Ceremony Barn
You may now kiss the bride at The Normans wedding venue

After the readings, the vows, and the giddy excitement of the ‘I dos’, Anna and Matt walked back down the aisle, through storm clouds of confetti, as man and wife.

Bride Anna says her vows in The Normans wedding venue Ceremony Barn
Bride Anna and Groom Matt are showered with confetti in The Normans wedding venue Ceremony Barn

The weather behaved itself enough for the doors of the Ceremony Barn to be flung open and for guests to enjoy the drinks reception in The Courtyard. The burble of chatter and laughter was accompanied by a relaxed soundtrack courtesy of the most excellent The Rebel Sounds.

Guests mingle in The Normans wedding venue Courtyard

While music may be the food of the soul, food for the belly was provided by out trusty catering partners, The Hog & Apple, who were on hand to distribute flutes of bubbly and a range of creatively constructed canapés.

Bubbly is served for the drinks reception after the wedding ceremony at The Normans
Canapes served by Hog & Apple at The Normans wedding venue
Canine guests are welcome at The Normans wedding venue

When Anna first started planning her day, all those years ago before various Covid lockdowns, she started with a few Pinterest posts, which quickly escalated into a full-on passion project…

The Normans wedding venue in full bloom

“One of our biggest visions was having the lights strung across the courtyard,” says Anna. “It was something that hadn’t been done before, but Oliver worked with the guys at AV Matrix - it really gave us that ‘courtyard party vibe’ in the evening!”

Wedding guests enjoy the sunshine in The Normans Courtyard

“I made a scrap book and spent weeks printing and sticking pictures to create a vision for each part of the day,” continues Anna. “Having an extra year to plan the wedding [because of Covid] I could have changed my mind hundreds of times... luckily for Kirsti and the team at Rose and Spade, I was set on a colour scheme: a gorgeous mix of deep pink, apricot and blush to add pops of colour. I knew I didn’t want every inch of the wedding to be ‘colour themed’ so it was great fun deciding how we could introduce bursts of colour without overdoing it. From the big flower arrangements to the delicate ones on the tables, the ribbons around the place names to the button holes… everything looked perfect!”

Stunning floral displays in The Normans wedding venue Courtyard

We were particularly impressed by the makeshift hat hooks the couple constructed in the entrance of The Grain Shed - a first!

Stylish seating plan at The Normans wedding venue
Improvised hat stand at The Normans wedding venue
Improvised hat stand at The Normans wedding venue. Terrific idea

Anna and Matt’s guests were seated along four rows of rustic banqueting tables, which were punctuated with bunches of flowers and tall, elegant candles. The Grain Shed dining area looked breath-taking.

The Grain Shed dining area at The Normans in all its glory
Table settings for the wedding breakfast at The Normans wedding venue
The Normans Grain Shed looked stunning
Fantastic wine and wondrous flowers at The Normans wedding venue
Ready for the wedding breakfast at The Normans

The food matched the aesthetics, thanks to the culinary endeavours of The Hog & Apple.

“Everyone who knows us, knows that we love food,” explains Anna. “So, the food for the Big Day was very important to us. Our menu was based on our love for the outdoors in the summer - especially barbecuing with friends and family. So, there were plenty of fresh salads and sweet potato fries! Our dessert was something more refined and beautifully plated. I nearly forgot what we had chosen at the tasting, 18 months previously, so it was a lovely surprise on the day!”

Groom Matt makes his speech at The Normans wedding venue

Three courses were bookmarked by speeches, and, once dessert was cleared, guests took the opportunity to steal outside to enjoy The Courtyard in the evening sun.

Evening drinks in The Normans wedding venue Courtyard

There was even time for Anna to toss the bouquet (a wedding tradition we don’t see much of these days, sadly)…

… as well as some impromptu dancing under the festoon lights…

Dancing in The Courtyard at The Normans wedding venue

But, before long, guests were called back into the Grain Shed for the cutting of a cake - almost a pity given how splendid the cake was. Hats off to Where The Ribbon Ends for crafting this three-tiered beauty.

Wedding cake goals at The Normans wedding venue

It was then straight onto the dance floor for Anna and Matt’s first dance as a married couple under Grain Shed’s fairy-light canopy.

Bride and groom take to the dance floor at The Normans wedding venue

The Rebel Sounds had relocated from the Courtyard to the main stage to give one of their trademark high-octane, wildly original performances. Suffice to say, the dance floor was packed - a fitting finale to a quite tremendous summer scorcher of a wedding.

Top wedding band The Rebel Sounds keeping it real at The Normans wedding venue
Guests dance the night away at The Normans wedding venue
We had the most perfect, stunning, amazing wedding day! Every single stage of the process was so easy - from booking all the way up to collecting our things the day after the wedding. Matt and I cannot thank The Normans team enough for making what was the hardest 18 months we could have imagined, end in such an incredible way!
— Amazing Anna

Rainy-day romance at The Normans

With this year’s wedding season starting earlier than usual, we’ve found it a tad tricky to find the time to update our wondrous wedding blog (thanks for bearing with us!). But we’re slowly finding our feet and we’ll be posting more and more marvellous marriages… But, for the time being, settle in and enjoy the verdant vibes of Emma & Graeme’s summer wedding here at The Normans, captured on camera by photographer Laura Calderwood.

Bride and groom exchange wedding vows in front of fairy lights in The Normans wedding venue Ceremony Barn

As is often the case at The Normans, proceedings started early in the morning in The Cottage

The Normans Cottage at The Normans wedding venue - view from the road

It was in the dressing room that bride Emma entrusted make-up duties to her namesake Emma (Denton).

“Emma specialises in natural ‘glowy’ make-up, which is exactly what I wanted,” says (bride) Emma.

Hair and make-up in The Normans Cottage at The Normans wedding venue

Meanwhile, unable to find a hairstylist named Emma (just imagine!), bride Emma commissioned in the excellent Hannah Taylor to beautify bobs.

“I loved my hair on the day,” says Emma. “It was important to me that my bridesmaids all felt comfortable, so they all picked different hairstyles and Hannah smashed every single one!”

Make-up artist Emma Denton with bride in The Normans Cottage at The Normans wedding venue
Bride Emma in The Normans Cottage at The Normans wedding venue.
Bride Emma looks stunning in The Normans Cottage at The Normans wedding venue

Bouquets for the bridal party were arranged by florist Kate Mell - we love the simplicity and timelessness of these white roses.

Wedding flowers by Kate Mell for Emma and Graeme's wedding at The Normans

Emma’s stunning bridal gown was the handiwork of designer Mark Lesley and procured from Confetti & Lace.

“I always knew the style I was going for - fitted with a low back!” says Emma. “It fit the bill perfectly, and as soon as I tried it on I instantly felt more confident. I did think I would go for a completely plain front but a bit of subtle sparkle at the top helped me feel a bit more special for the Big Day!”

Beautiful bride Emma framed greenery constructed by Kate Mell

Bridesmaids, meanwhile, were dressed in something blue.

Bridesmaids in The Normans Cottage at The Normans wedding venue

“I spent nearly a year searching for the ‘perfect’ shade of blue I'd envisioned for the bridesmaids’ dresses since we booked the venue!” recounts Emma.” Eventually, I found them on ASOS. I'm glad I persevered as the colour looks amazing in photos.”

It certainly does, Emma, it certainly does…

Bride and bridesmaids at The Normans wedding venue

Contrary to what we tell couples when they first view the venue: it does rain in North Yorkshire (sometimes). But the wet weather didn’t dampen spirits and Emma and her bridesmaids were happy to brave the elements en route to The Ceremony Barn.

Emma and groom Graeme decided to keep thinks simple in the Ceremony Barn - enlisting the mad skills or florist Kate Mell to build this lush foliage archway, which provided a perfect pop of greenery in amidst the flickering candles and twinkling fairy lights.

Florist Kate Mell designed this floral archway in The Normans wedding venue Ceremony Barn

“We were unsure whether to include the foliage archway in the Ceremony Barn,” explains Emma. “In the end, we opted to go for it and it's one of the best last-minute decisions we made! It looked absolutely stunning and we also had to use [the Ceremony Barn] more than we had anticipated due to the rubbish weather on the day, so all our photos were taken inside and it was a great feature!”

The Normans Ceremony Barn at The Normans wedding venue. Floral archway by Kate Mell

Indeed, the archway was the first stop on Emma’s journey down the aisle - arm in arm with proud dad Gary…

Bride walks down the aisle in The Normans Ceremony Barn

Once she reached her destination, Gary gave her away to groom-in-waiting Graeme. Who, we now realise, hasn’t had much of a mention thus far! (Sorry Graeme.)

Bride Emma rocks the aisle in The Normans wedding venue Ceremony Barn
Bride meets groom at the top of the aisle in the Ceremony Barn at The Normans wedding venue
Exchanging marriage vows in The Normans wedding Ceremony Barn
Bride and groom marry in The Normans wedding venue Ceremony Barn
Bride and groom in The Ceremony Barn at The Normans wedding venue

Needless to say, Graeme looked suitably dashing in a nice marine navy check suit, with double-breasted waistcoat by Marc Darcy and purchased from Joshua Adams.

“It didn't take Graeme long to pick his suit as he loved this one as soon as he tried it on,” says Emma. “The groomsmen have the same suit which looks very smart in the photos.”

Bride and groom framed by floral archway by florist Kate Mell

Once the couple were married in front of their 66 day guests, they were lucky to get a break in the weather and were able to enjoy canapes (courtesy of F4D) in the Courtyard.

After a couple of hours of nibbles, drinks and photos, the Grain Shed doors were opened and guests were guided in by way of this bespoke table plan.

The table plan greets wedding guests as they enter the Grain Shed at The Normans wedding venue

Emma and Graeme had opted for our rustic banqueting tables, set out in four rows with a top table. The outer two rows featured the gantries lined with foliage, which worked wonderfully as it gave height to the greenery.

Florist Kate Mell used candles and greenery to decorate The Normans wedding venue Grain Shed dining room
Rustic banqueting tables in The Normans wedding venue Grain Shed dining area
The top table set for the wedding breakfast at The Normans wedding venue

The cake, by the wonderful Where The Ribbon Ends, was another head-turner - and the artful silhouette topper had something of a significant meaning to the couple.

Wedding cake by Where the Ribbon Ends displayed in the Grain Shed at The Normans wedding venue

“Our dog Reggie was also supposed to make an appearance at the wedding, but had an operation the day before so was unable to be there!” explains Emma. “We featured him on our cake topper instead and made sure he was in some of the photos we printed out and displayed in the Cow Stalls, so those were small details which were special to us.”

The wedding breakfast highlights included barbecue sharing boards and pork belly. And once the delectable dishes had been consumed, speeches were made.

Wedding guests enjoy the speeches at The Normans wedding venue

Soon enough, guests congregated around the dance floor for Emma and Graeme’s first dance.

Bride and groom and first dance at The Normans wedding venue

And, before long, the rest of the guests were coaxed onto the dancefloor, by the sweet sounds of The Wilde Ones - an aesthetically (and acoustically) pleasing band who look as though they’ve walked off the set of Twilight (the boys are, in fact, from the Jonny Ross Music agency).

Dancing the night away at The Normans wedding venue
Dancing the night away at The Normans wedding venue

“The Normans is the most perfect venue and we fell in love with it from the minute we first looked round,” says Emma in a heartfelt tribute to The Normans (which we’re more than happy to print in full). “The whole experience with the team was amazing - they made the planning experience feel completely stress free, from our last minute queries, which were never too much trouble, right up to re-scheduling the whole date thanks to Covid! Everything about the service felt so genuine and personal.”

You guys!

Bride and groom in The Normans wedding venue Cow Stalls
So many of our guests said it’s the most beautiful wedding venue they’ve ever been to.
— The most excellent Emma

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Sunshine and style at The Normans

Good tidings seem to be in short supply at the moment, so we thought we’d try to brighten up your newsfeed with some sunshine and summer love direct from The Normans wedding venue.

Canine guests are welcome at The Normans wedding venue

Bride, groom and… Arnie. Image by photographybycharli.com

Stunning bride Faye and her beau Matt married at The Normans in September 2021. And while their wedding was technically an autumnal affair, it had all the hallmarks of a summer soirée, boasting sunshine and good times in abundance.

Indeed, the temperate climes meant that that bride and bridesmaids could spend the wedding morning roaming the venue in silk robes - mimosas in hand - before retreating to The Normans Cottage for hair and make-up.

Bride and bridesmaids on the wedding morning. Image by photographybycharli.com

Mimosas, make-up and marriage - in that order in - The Normans Cottage

Mimosas, make-up and marriage - in that order. Image by photographybycharli.com

Inside The Cottage, the talented Paige Lauren had been commissioned to look after the ladies’ locks, while make-up was the remit of the Jade Heanley.

Faye readies herself for her Wedding Day in The Normans Cottage.

Faye readies herself in The Normans Cottage. Image by photographybycharli.com

Bride Faye has her wedding hair styled in The Normans Cottage

Hair today… Image by photographybycharli.com

The bridesmaids have their hair styled for the wedding in The Normans Cottage

Good hair day in The Normans Cottage. Image by photographybycharli.com

Faye’s wedding dress, meanwhile, was by Martina Liana and was purchased from Ava Rose Hamilton.

“I definitely watched far too much ‘Say Yes to the Dress’ during Lockdown,” jokes Faye. “Ava Rose was the third store I visited, so I had an idea of the style I wanted, but I fell in love with the off-the-shoulder detail and (slightly) excessive train, which was filled with twigs by the end of the day! It wasn't anything like what I had saved to my Pinterest board, but I felt like an absolute princess in it!”

The wedding dress in all its glory in The Normans Cottage.

The wedding dress hanging in The Normans Cottage. Image by photographybycharli.com

The bride tries on her wedding dress in The Normans Cottage

Mirror, mirror on the wall... bride Faye is the fairest of them all. Image by photographybycharli.com

Faye felt like a princess - and she certainly looked the part. We love the expression on the bridesmaids’ faces when they first see the bride in her dress. The moment was caught on camera by wonderful wedding photographer Charli Palmer.

Bridesmaids are blown away by Faye. Image by photographybycharli.com

Faye’s squad kept up appearances - they all looked beautiful in dusky-pink bridesmaids dresses from Krisp Clothing.

“I searched for so long to find the right shade of pink and also a dress style that would suit everyone,” explains Faye. “The elastic backs worked well for bridesmaids who were expecting and food babies after the meal.”

Beautiful bride Faye with her bridesmaids at The Normans wedding venue

Beautiful bride Faye with her bridesmaids. Image by photographybycharli.com

Dreamy dresses were complimented by fantastic flowers - bridesmaids and bride’s bouquets skilfully constructed by Natasha Coustol Floral Designs.

Fantastic florals. Image by photographybycharli.com

With flowers and frocks in order, Faye turned heads and dropped jaws as she walked up the aisle to meet her man.

Matt looked great in a Marc Darcy three-piece suit - the tweed chequered waistcoat contrasting nicely with the blue jacket and trouser. Meanwhile, Matt’s groomsmen were fitted out in Cavani suits and accessorised with Marc Darcy ties and pocket squares.

The registrar presides over the marriage in The Normans Ceremony Barn

Faye meets Matt at the top of the aisle. Image by photographybycharli.com

You may now kiss the bride. Happy scenes in The Normans Ceremony Barn

You may now kiss the bride… Image by photographybycharli.com

Bride and Groom sign the register in The Normans Ceremony Barn

Bride and Groom sign the register. Image by photographybycharli.com

The couple did the ‘I dos’ in front of our iconic cascading fairy lights, flanked by flower displays by Natasha Coustol.

“The Normans is a stunning venue, so there wasn't much need for a lot of décor,” says Faye. “With it being a September wedding I wanted to keep the colours ‘summery’, so we chose large floral arrangements for the Ceremony Barn with blush pink flowers to match the bridesmaids’ dresses. I'm not sure if ‘classy rustic’ is a thing - but that's what I was going for,” laughs Faye.

Marriage ceremony in rustic wedding barn - wedding venue North Yorkshire

“A lot of our décor was either reclaimed or built from scratch,” says Faye. “The DIY list was endless but serval lockdowns ensured we had enough time to do everything! The wooden lanterns that lined the aisle were a particular favourite of mine - Matt spent several weekends chopping up an old pallet and gluing pieces together to make them.”

Once the couple had been pelted with confetti, the Ceremony Barn doors were flung open, revealing the sun-filled Courtyard. Here, The Hog & Apple Food Co. were armed with delectable canapés and trays laden with beers and bubbly.

Bride and groom enjoy canapes in The Normans Courtyard

Bride and groom enjoy H&A culinary treats in The Normans Courtyard. Image by photographybycharli.com

Bride and Groom mingle with the adoring masses in The Normans wedding venue Courtyard

Bride and Groom mingle with the adoring masses. Image by photographybycharli.com

There canapés were accompanied by garden games - the mini golf course certainly got guests’ competitive juices flowing.

Groom Matt keeping it cool in The Normans wedding venue Courtyard

Groom Matt keeping it cool. Image by photographybycharli.com

Garden games - wedding day - Rustic Yorkshire wedding venue

H&A’s canapés never disappoint and Faye and Matt’s menu featured mini steak pies with pea puree and shot of real ale, arancini mushrooms and soft Japanese bao buns with katsu chicken filling and green onion.

“We chose our menu based on some of the foods we loved from our holidays,” says Faye. “Doug from Hog & Apple was great during our planning sessions and suggested bao buns, which Matt loves having tried them on a recent trip to Japan. These were a firm favourite with the guests and even Arnie got a taste for some tricks!”

Tasty canapes served in The Normans Courtyard after the marriage ceremony

Canapes served in The Normans Courtyard after the marriage ceremony. Image by photographybycharli.com

Tasty treats for the drinks reception in The Normans wedding venue Courtyard

Tasty treats for the drinks reception. Image by photographybycharli.com

Treats for bride's best friend. Image by photographybycharli.com

Indeed, Arnie the Lab cut quite a dash, wearing a custom-made suit from Tuna & Bear.

As guests enjoyed the September sunshine, Faye and Matt stole away with their photographer to explore the farm and surrounding countryside.

Bride and Groom outside The Normans wedding venue

Bride and Groom share a moment. Image by photographybycharli.com

Bride and Groom take a break from the wedding
Rural romance at The Normans wedding venue

Rural romance. Image by photographybycharli.com

Once the two had returned from their rural jaunt, the Grain Shed doors were opened and the wedding breakfast was announced.

En route, guests enjoyed the extensive photo collage the couple had installed.

“Our main aim was to bring everyone together and have great time,” explains Faye, “so we decided to focus on activities that people could do together, from the lawn games, to the cigar bar, to the photos that lined the entrance to the Grain Shed.”

Rustic Yorkshire wedding venue
Rustic Yorkshire wedding venue

Guests were seated along four rows of banqueting tables. The gantries were used to elevate greenery and to hang glass baubles and candles. The DIY décor was simple yet oh-so effective.

Wedding breakfast - Rustic Yorkshire wedding venue

“This was the first time a lot of family had seen each other in a long time, so we chose the long rustic dining tables and sharing dishes,” explains Faye. “We fell in love with the idea of sharing platters - it's such a unique idea and we were able to customise them to include all our favourite tapas. All the guests commented on how amazing the food was!”

Groom's speech - wedding venue - Rustic Yorkshire wedding venue

After speeches, guests (who still had room) gorged themselves on the brownie tower and mini donuts (we love the personalised donut bags!).

Desserts - wedding breakfast - Rustic Yorkshire wedding venue
We love a donut wall at The Normans wedding venue
Rustic Yorkshire wedding venue

“The whole day was perfect from start to finish, we can’t thank Oliver, Sharon and Doug from H&A enough - they made everything stress-free and even helped us party through the power cut!” says Faye.

Indeed, The Normans generator kicked in right on cue when the local area was hit by a power outage that evening!

DJ Steve Madison and saxophonist Joe Reeve provided the soundtrack for the evening and didn’t take guests long to join Faye & Matt on the dance floor after the first dance.

First dance, Rustic Yorkshire wedding venue
Bride on the dance floor - party - Rustic Yorkshire wedding venue
The Normans will always hold a special place in our hearts and we feel incredibly lucky to have been able to have our special day here.
— Fabulous Faye
First dance Rustic Yorkshire wedding venue

Suppliers

Catering The Hog & Apple Food Co.

Photography Photos & Film by Charli

Flowers Natasha Coustol Floral Designs

Wedding dress Martina Liana from Ava Rose Hamilton

Bridesmaids’ dresses Krisp Clothing

Groom’s suit Marc Darcy

DJ Steve Madison

Saxophonist Joe Reeve

Hair Paige Lauren

Make-up Jade Heanley

Men of the moment at The Normans

It’s been a while since we posted on our world-renowned* wedding blog. There are a number of excuses: last year’s busy festive schedule, an Omicron scare, and, most of all, our insane children.

But we’re back with a vengeance, kicking off 2022 with, erm, a throwback to 2021. Bear with us, because this wedding was an absolute belter…

The stars of our story are Liam & Nima, two handsome chaps from Leeds who were lucky enough to hold their wedding on its original date after a year and a half of uncertainty. And what a wedding it was…

*not world-renowned

 
The gorgeous grooms exchange personalised vows exchanged in front of cascading fairy lights. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Nima (left) and Liam (right) exchange personalised vows. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

 

The couple’s attention to detail ensured that all senses were satisfied - sight, smell and sound… and suits!

“We spent rather a long time looking for suits and went to many shops (both high street and bespoke), but we struggled to find suits that would fit the rustic theme of the venue and not make us look like we were off grouse shooting!” says Nima.

Groom Liam dressing to impress in The Normans Cottage at The Normans wedding venue. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Groom Liam dressing to impress in The Normans Cottage. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Groomsmen getting ready outside The Normans Cottage at The Normans wedding venue. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Groomsmen getting ready outside The Normans Cottage. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Drinks before the marriage ceremony at The Normans

Double parked. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

A few drinks to steady the nerves in The Normans Cottage at The Normans wedding venue. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

And breathe… Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Wedding favours at The Normans wedding venue

Personalised Lego men were exchanged before the ceremony. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Happily, Liam and Nima eventually found the perfect suits at the ever-reliable Moss Bros: stylish slim-fit three-piece tweed suits in a lovely shade of sage for themselves, and a deeper brown for groomsmen. (Usually, our hearts sink when groom and groomsmen turn up at a summer wedding wearing tweed - dying of heat exhaustions isn’t a good look on a wedding day! But Liam and Nima dodged this bullet by choosing a nice lightweight fabric with a slim-fit cut.)

The grooms share a tender moment before the marriage ceremony at The Normans wedding venue. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Choosing the groomsmaids’ dresses, meanwhile, involved several Zoom fashion shows and, according to Nima, lots of online orders and returns during various lockdowns. However, the ladies finally settled for these beautiful designs from Coast.

“We found them early on, luckily, as we certainly weren't looking forward to hours of dress shopping! They were stunning though, somehow managed to suit all three girls … and were in the sale!” laughs Nima.

 
The groomsmaids looking stunning before the wedding at The Normans wedding venue

The groomsmaids looking stunning before the ceremony. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

 

And so, to the venue…

“We had a strong idea of what we wanted,” says Nima. “But we didn't know how to execute it. Luckily, armed with a few ideas and photos, we had a quick and efficient meeting with brilliant florist Kate Mell. She was great and we would recommend her to anybody getting married at The Normans - especially because of the bespoke floral options she has for the venue.”

Welcome sign  at The Normans wedding venue

Handmade wooden signage greeted guests on arrival. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Card box  at The Normans wedding venue

We love this card box made from a suitcase. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Flowers aside, much of the venue's aesthetic and vibe was down to stylist Emily K.

“Emily executed everything so well - to a standard we could just never have done ourselves,” says Nima. “She did the beautiful entrance sign and the card box.”

Time to tie the knot at The Normans wedding venue

Time to tie the knot. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Congregating in the Farmhouse Courtyard before the ceremony at The Normans wedding venue. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Congregating in the Farmhouse Courtyard before the ceremony. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

The rustic Ceremony Barn  at The Normans wedding venue

The rustic Ceremony Barn at The Normans wedding venue. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

The couple’s personal, heartfelt ceremony was conducted by super celebrant Deborah Page.

“She went out of her way to write us a ceremony that meant so much to us,” says Nima. “There wasn’t a dry eye in the house. We were so glad we went with the option of a personalised ceremony officiated by a celebrant.”

Marriage ceremony  at The Normans wedding venue

A traditional Persian sugar-rubbing ritual. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Marriage ceremony  at The Normans wedding venue
Marriage ceremony  at The Normans wedding venue
 
Marriage ceremony  at The Normans wedding venue

A ceremony to remember at The Normans. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

“During the ceremony, we had a marriage canopy put above us with my ‘unmarried’ cousin sprinkling sugar over us to represent sweetness,” explains Nima.

As per Persian tradition, the grooms were asked three times if they wanted to get married. Each time, Nima said no, holding out for a gift from Liam. When Liam finally offered the ‘gift of marriage’, Nima said yes. The couple then fed one another a dab of honey, which represent a lifetime of sharing, sustenance and sweetness together. Beautiful.

The grooms walk back up the aisle in The Normans Ceremony Barn. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Liam and Nima walk back up the aisle in The Normans Ceremony Barn. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Aside from the stunning aesthetics and emotional ceremony, guests couldn’t help compliment the grooms on the smell of the venue. The serene scents were a result of a close collaboration with Emily K, who sourced scented oils for the wedding day.

Our friends we told [about the scented oils] found it hilarious and teased us about it, but a lot of people complimented the smell and now we have candles made to remind us of the big day!” says Nima.

Delicious canapes served by Hog & Apple. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Canapes by Hog & Apple

Champagne on ice for drinks reception at The Normans wedding venue. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Champagne on ice. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Canapes to kill for by The Hog & Apple at The Normans wedding venue.  Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Canapes to kill for by The Hog & Apple. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Guests are served drinks at pop-up bar in The Courtyard at The Normans wedding venue. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Guests are served drinks at pop-up bar. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Once the ceremony had finished, guests followed the grooms outside into The Courtyard for canapes to kill for by The Hog & Apple Food Co, and a soundtrack courtesy of The Paul Young Folk Duo…

Leafy views in The Normans Courtyard in The Normans wedding venue. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Leafy views in The Normans Courtyard. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Music at The Normans wedding venue. Leafy views in The Normans Courtyard. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Paul Young Folk Duo provide the soundtrack for the reception. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

We love a good old group shot in The Courtyard at The Normans wedding venue. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

The Courtyard at The Normans wedding venue. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

After a couple of hours of mingling, guests were called in for the wedding breakfast; guided into the Grain Shed by this stunning table plan, styled by Emily K.

Table plan illuminated by our beaded chandelier at The Normans wedding venue.  Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Table plan illuminated by the beaded chandelier. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Guests were guided in by the table plan. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Guests were guided in by the table plan. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Emily was also responsible for the place settings and table arrangements, but hats off to the boys who spent hours planning, ordering and putting together bespoke Lego figures for all of their 125 guests!

“Our guests absolutely loved them,” says Nima, “The figures made for great souvenirs.”

Beautifully appointed place settings at The Normans wedding venue. Photo by Sugarbird

Beautifully appointed place settings. Photo by Sugarbird

Perfect place settings at The Normans wedding venue. Photo by Sugarbird Photography
Pride by way of Lego at The Normans wedding venue. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Pride by way of Lego. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

“We also spent a lot of time writing and making bespoke Cards Against Humanity for each table, including answers designed for each table, with in-jokes and stories from school or university. Apparently they went down very well!”

 
Ready for dinner at The Normans wedding venue. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Ready for dinner. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

 

H&A pulled out the stops with a Middle Eastern-style mezze board for starter - a mix of lamb kebabs with hummus and labneh.

“While not necessarily ‘authentic’ Persian, it was still a nod to Nima's heritage and something that was important to us,” says Liam.

The 'main' was the ‘lamb three ways’, which featured two beautiful cuts of perfectly cooked lamb, a lamb pastilla, beautiful vegetable sides, rounded off with an artichoke puree.

The wedding breakfast at The Normans. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

The wedding breakfast at The Normans. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Super speeches at The Normans wedding venue

Super speeches. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

After the speeches, the couple had chance to steal away with their photographer James, aka Sugarbird Photography, and take advantage of the beautiful sunset.

Liam and Nima enjoy a quiet moment outside The Normans wedding venue. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Liam and Nima enjoy a quiet moment outside. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Fantastic couple photos in one of the farm buildings at The Normans wedding venue. Photo by Sugarbird Photograph

We love the lighting of this awesome shot. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

A quiet stroll in the countryside around The Normans wedding venue. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

A quiet stroll in the countryside. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Back inside, an artful tower of macaroons awaited the grooms, while glassware was readied for after-dinner cocktails.

“We ordered a cocktail for every guest after dinner. Three different types, each named with a nod to Nima’s love of Britney - 'Every-time Espresso Martinis', 'Oops... Old Fashioneds' and 'Circus Cosmos',” explains Liam.

 
Marvellous macaroons take the place of cake. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Marvellous macaroons take the place of cake. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

 
 
Let them eat cake - sorry - macaroons at The Normans wedding venue. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Let them eat cake - sorry - macaroons. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

 

Dancefloor derring-do began with a ‘knife dance’ - a Persian wedding tradition where a newly married couple have to ‘earn the knife’ (quite literally pay money) to cut the cake.

“This stems back from a centuries-old tradition where men would return from the battlefield and, as part of their celebrations, ‘paid women of the harem’ would dance with the battle swords,” explains Nima.

Persian knife dance to kick of the evening at The Normans wedding venue. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Persian knife dance to kick of the evening. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

A traditional Persian knife dance at The Normans wedding venue. Photo by Sugarbird Photography
The Persian knife dance at The Normans wedding venue. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

From here on, the dance floor was packed all evening - largely thanks to the couple’s bespoke wedding playlist.

“We are control freaks so we opted for a set playlist so we knew exactly what was going to be played!” laughs Liam. “We also had an Iranian music segment with all the Iranian party classics… and I don't think the dancefloor was ever not full... especially for Nima's 'Work Bitch' performance, which he’s famous for cracking out at parties and nights outs. There was a lot of pressure for him to nail it for the wedding!”

Trust us. He nailed it.

Nima leads the way on the dance floor at The Normans wedding venue. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Nima leads the way on the dance floor. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Shake it like a Polaroid picture at The Normans wedding venue. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Shake it like a Polaroid picture. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Dance til you drop at The Normans wedding venue. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Dance til you drop. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

The Normans is an incredible venue... The team’s comms were always super speedy and useful - we never had to stress about the venue itself. Thank you again!
— Men of the moment, Liam & Nima

The grooms share a tender moment at The Normans wedding venue. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

SUPPLIERS

Food The Hog & Apple Food Co.

Flowers Kate Mell

Photos Sugarbird Photography

Venue styling Emily K Weddings

Celebrant True to You Celebrancy

Reception music Paul Young

Grooms and groomsmen’s suits Moss Bros

Groomsmaids dresses Coast

DJ equipment hire Night Owls

Good things come to those who wait at The Normans wedding venue

“F*cking Finally” were the words that poetically graced the top of Shiv and Dan’s wedding cake - in glorious, glittery italics.

Indeed! After having to rescheduled their date three times because of the pesky pandemic, these fine folk finally got their wedding - on an August day, surrounded by symbolic Yorkshire roses.

From the word go, it was good-vibes-only in The Normans Cottage. Here, Shiv - along with her mum and her bridesmaids - readied themselves for her long-awaited wedding day.

“I loved getting my hair and makeup done with the bridal party in the morning,” says Shiv. “Getting glammed up while enjoying some fizz was the perfect way to relax!”

The dream team behind the girls’ glamorous looks? “The wonderful Jules Daniels did mine and my bridesmaids’ makeup, and the lovely Emily Hawkes did our hair,” tells Shiv. “I had a trial with each of them, which was really worthwhile as it meant things went really smoothly on the morning.”

“Good old ASOS,” says Shiv, on where her bridesmaids’ dresses were from. “I wanted to make sure that the girls all felt comfortable … blue wasn’t the colour I originally thought I would go with, but the style suited them all so well and they all looked beautiful in it.”

But, understandably, all eyes were on Shiv’s gorgeous gown - an A-line, full lace ensemble from Pronovias at Bridal Rogue Gallery in York.

“Its lace design is covered in roses,” says Shiv. “Roses are really special and symbolic to me for a number of personal reasons: one being that my Grandma was named Rosie, and another is that I am a very proud Yorkshire lass, so it really did feel like it was meant to be!”

Roses were a natural pick for the wedding flora - and Kate Mell the woman charged with making all of the floral creations, from the top table to the bouquets and beyond. “The two large arrangements in urns at the top of the aisle, looked gorgeous against the sparkly lights,” says Shiv.

“Obviously as roses are important to us, we knew they would be our main flowers,” says Shiv, “and as we were having a summer wedding we wanted to go with a dusky pink and white colour palette.

“We were really lucky in that our florist knows the venue so well, so she was able to make suggestions for the décor. She was brilliant as we did change our minds quite a lot!”

“We’d seen so many beautiful ideas on The Normans Instagram that helped give us inspiration, such as wrapping the Cow Stall beams in ivy,” says Shiv. “Kate Mell also created a floral photo frame covered in Baby’s Breath. It created a really fun and beautiful photo opportunity for our friends.”

Elsewhere, the couple’s favourite tipple made a playful decorative feature: “We are both big gin lovers so we had Hendricks bottles with flowers in as our centrepieces and had a number dotted around the venue. Our favours were also mini gin bottles,” says Shiv.  

“Dan works in branding so we had a lot of personal touches,” says Shiv, “he was particularly proud of the logo he created which went across all our stationary and on our card and gift box.” 

On top of all the pink roses and personal touches, the Yorkshire sun shone on the entire wedding party, prompting the relevant gents to do their speeches al fresco style, in The Normans Courtyard.

“The food was one of the best bits of the day,” adds Shiv, who chose Yorkshire deli platters and barbecue platters, including lamb and buttermilk chicken. “We’ve had so many messages from guests since, stating that they have never had food like it at a wedding before … watching our guests’ faces when the huge boards were placed in front of them was a highlight of the day.”

The sun-drenched August day also lent itself to some fabulous couple shots, taken on The Normans farmland. “The family feel of The Normans and the fact that there is still the working farm just makes it all the more special,” says Shiv. “Some of our wedding photos literally have a tractor harvesting behind us, it was so unique!”

The Normans is a stunning venue run with a lot of heart and warmth by a remarkable team who will go above and beyond. I only wish we could do it all over again!
— Sensational Shiv

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BRIDE’S DRESS PRONOVIAS AT BRIDAL ROGUE GALLERY YORK

BRIDESMAIDS’ DRESSES ASOS

BRIDE’S HAIR EMILY HAWKES BRIDAL HAIR LEEDS

BRIDAL MAKE-UP JULES DANIELS BRIDAL UK

BRIDE’S HAIR VINE ETSY

GROOM’S SUIT NEXT

FLOWERS KATE MELL FLOWERS

FOOD THE HOG & APPLE FOOD CO.

PHOTOGRAPHY BLOOM WEDDINGS

MUSIC ANDY USHER & BLUE LION BAND

WEDDING CAKE BY SHIV’S MARVELLOUS MUM - CAKE TOPPER ETSY

Something blue (and yellow) at The Normans wedding venue

A Caroline Castigliano dress, soft summery colour scheme, and the most gorgeous sun-soaked day made for a truly memorable marriage for couple Emily and Sam.

If you ask us, bronzed bride Emily looked like a total babe in her Caroline Castigliano dress: purchased off the peg at The Harrogate Wedding Lounge.

“The dress was called ‘Simplicity’,” says Emily, “which is what drew me to it: it allowed me to add a bolero jacket by day, made by my mum, and the flexibility to remove it and add a sparkly belt for the evening.”

It was a timeless look for the rest of the bridal party too, with the the groomsmen sporting three-piece suits by Peter Posh and, for the bridesmaids, elegant, floor-length gowns from Maids to Measure.

The bridal party’s delicate sky-blue hue made up one half of the day’s colour scheme, as Emily explains: “My favourite colour is yellow and Sam’s is blue so they worked perfectly as the colour scheme for our July wedding.”

“After meeting our florist Kate Mell on a wintery February morning we visualised a summer’s day and chose pale yellow roses, blue oxypetalum, blue Nigella and grey-blue foliage,” says Emily.

“Yellow rose petals were collected from my granny and my mum’s gardens,” says Emily, “These were carefully dried for confetti and thrown over us after the ceremony.”

“Although our flowers for the day were stunning - and key to bringing out some colour - the overall look we were going for was ‘rustic but finished’,” says Emily. “We achieved this with Kate Mell by having a large amount of greenery around the venue.”

“Kate Mell also added the same florals on our cake, created by The Flamingo Bakery.  “Emily even had our wedding logo made into a template to emboss it on to our cake!” says Sam.

“Every part of our wedding stationery was also in keeping with the blue and yellow colour scheme,” tells Emily. “Think favours, name cards, menus and anniversary box slips, all running down the tables.”

“We also had a large amount of wooden items and signs with burnt lettering in the wood, which kept the rustic theme going,” Emily says. “It also added a personal touch as the wood was cut and crafted by Sam’s dad Mike and was burnt with pyrography by my mum, Cate.”

There were plenty of handmade items, among them Damson Gin favours: “The damsons were picked from Sam’s parent’s garden in 2019 - the year we got engaged - and they’d been distilled in sugar and gin, waiting for our wedding day,” tells Emily.

The couple were blessed with super summery weather, too, meaning that talented musicians Marc and Abi could perform al fresco in The Courtyard! The hot weather also suited the menu choice for the wedding breakfast: “We decided to keep our menu fairly light and Mediterranean,” says Emily. “One comment we had from a lot of guests, was: ‘How the hell did they [Hog & Apple] bring out 100 steaks cooked to perfection?!’”

“When we initially booked The Normans, Oliver and Sharon explained that they pride themselves on the ‘flow’ of the day – and, yes, it flowed,” says Emily. “One of our guests said, ‘when you go to a wedding, there is always a lull period where people don’t know what to do with themselves – this just didn’t happen at your wedding, it was amazing, and the day just went so fast’.”

While the couple had every decorative detail covered, Yorkshire served up the most gorgeous sun-drenched evening, enabling Emily and Sam to head out in The Normans corn-strewn fields and capture these enchanting images with Joel Skingle Photography. (Joel, we salute you!)

Anyone can see from photos that The Normans is a stunning space to have your wedding - but you are getting so much more than a beautiful venue, you are getting a family-run business with a team of two couples that are totally and utterly devoted to making every wedding perfect and unique to each couple.
— the ever-so fabulous, Emily

Don’t rain on my parade … at The Normans

It was third time lucky for Amy and James at The Normans, after their plans were thwarted by Covid. Not once, but twice. But brooding clouds couldn’t dampen spirits on the couple’s July wedding day…

First up, Amy’s wedding dress. We were obsessed-at-first-sight with this Alika gown - from its petal-inspired details to its sheer panels and full, flowing skirt. Designed by British bridal brand Savin London, Amy snapped it up from Wakefield’s Lace & Co boutique.

“I loved the flowers that covered the skirt,” says Amy. “I wanted something with texture that people might not have seen before, but I didn’t want to add any colour, so this was perfect … The matching Alika veil was just the cherry on top!”

The couple’s daughter, Matilda, was a flower girl on the day and couldn’t have looked cuter in a complimentary dress, from Chloé and Amelié . “It was called ‘In the Meadows’ and an almost perfect match to my gown,” says Amy. “It was totally by chance that I stumbled across it on Instagram.”

The girls readied themselves in The Norman’s Cottage, draped in floral silk robes - before the bridesmaids stepped into identical dusky pink dresses - Olympia in Smoked Orchid by TH & TH - in ‘floaty and flattering’ shapes.

All those dreamy mauve and pink hues tied in perfectly with the lavender to be seen in The Normans Courtyard, where guests gathered before being seated in the Ceremony Barn.

Wedding-white flora decorated the Barn, with full-bodied hydrangea parading on top of rustic barrels. Flower girl Matilda carried a basket of ‘Baby’s Breath’ (aka Gypsophila) as she stepped down the aisle with page boy Noah.

A single white rose made up the buttonhole of groom James, who - along with the father-of-the-bride and groomsmen - wore a blue tweed three-piece suit, Dion from Marc Darcy. “We were drawn to the suits as they felt fitting for the venue,” says James. “Smart but also casual with their tweed texture.”

The couple celebrated their newly-wed status in The Normans Courtyard, where guests were entertained by giant garden games, activity bags for little ones and soloist Steven Heath, who performed in the open air as guests tucked into fizz and canapes.

Meanwhile, Amy and James were snapped taking some couple’s time out in The Cow Stalls: “The Normans has so many lovely rustic areas,” explains Amy, “and lots of lovely mixes of old and new, which have all been designed so well.”

“We added lots of lovely greenery and fairy lights in places like The Cow Stalls and placed rustic wooden plant pots of greenery and lavender around the venue,” says Amy. “We also dressed spaces with white hydrangea plants and added bay trees at the entrance.” Plants that the pair later gave to guests as gifts, or planted in their garden in memory of the day.

“Our floral colour scheme ran through into the The Grain Shed, where the wooden tables were dressed with lots of different beautiful vases, tea-light holders and candles,” says Amy. “Greenery was added throughout and also above the top table to compliment the lighting already in situ.”

Gorgeous signage and table décor from Cherry Williams Party Hire completed the look. “I’m proud of how we stayed true to the venue’s style and uniqueness and pleased that we managed to compliment its lovely rustic areas, rather than try and change any parts of it,” says Amy.

“I loved the light-up LOVE letters and all of the white balloons on the stage – worth the pain of blowing them all up the night before!” says Amy. “They added to the atmosphere and created some fun, especially for the children who enjoyed playing with the balloons throughout the day.”

Beyond the décor was fine food, courtesy of The Hog & Apple Food Co. “People had a choice of starter – duck parfait, pesto arancini, or posh fish and chips,” says Amy. “For main it was seabass, flat iron steak or onion tarte and for dessert lemon posset or chocolate delice.” A ‘doughnut wall’ and sweet table finished things off a treat (and looked the part too.)

The adrenalin (and, no doubt, free-flowing cocktails) of the day ensured everyone had the energy to take to the dancefloor, throwing shapes to floor fillers from The Rebel Sounds - an epic end to a third-time-lucky event. Congratulations Amy and James!

The Normans was the first wedding venue we looked around back in 2018 and I just fell in love with it straight away: the whole place is magical, and the team are just brilliant!
— Amazing Amy

SUPPLIERS

BRIDE’S DRESS LACE & CO BOUTIQUE

BRIDESMAIDS’ DRESSES TH&TH

FLOWERGIRL DRESS chloe and amelie

BRIDE’S HAIR DEXTERITY

BRIDAL MAKE-UP MAKE UP BY KATE MARSHALL

GROOM & GROOMSMEN’S SUITS MARC DARCY

PHOTOGRAPHY INSIGHT PHOTOGRAPHY

FLOWERS ORANGE BLOSSOM FLOWERS

FOOD THE HOG & APPLE FOOD Co.

TABLE DECOR HIRE CHERRY WILLIAMS PARTY HIRE

MUSIC STEVEN HEATH

BAND THE REBEL SOUNDS

Time to Shine at The Normans

We don’t want to tempt fate… but it would appear that weddings are back! Huzzah!

At time of writing, we’ve enjoyed four uninterrupted months of matrimonial mayhem here at The Normans, and we’re now ready to bring you the best bits by way of blog. That's right: you can now look forward to regular posts showcasing the super celebrations of our couples - many of whom have stuck with us, having had to reschedule their 2020 wedding dates.

First up: Charlotte and James. This radiant duo finally married at The Normans this summer (one year later than planned) and their wedding sparkled with sunshine and oh-so-in-love vibes...

If you love to getting glittered up (guilty!), then you’re bound to love Charlotte’s True Bride gown - an intricately detailed dress, encompassing sparkling gemstones, from Doncaster’s It’s Bliss.

 “I knew [the dress] would look lovely against the lights in The Ceremony Barn,” says Charlotte. “I’ve always loved the dresses the ladies wore in the 1920s and I think it had a bit of a Gatsby vibe.

“The bridesmaid dresses were actually just from Debenhams. I initially wanted a pale yellow but thought the pale blue went well with the white flowers and greenery and the boys’ suits.”

The suits! Let us not forget the strapping Simon, who looked the part – together with his groomsmen – in matching blue suits, from Limehaus. “Our waistcoats were racing green … for a bit of a country feel, as I’m from Yorkshire,” says Simon.

A simple colour palette of green and white, with lots of flickering candlelight, set a romantic backdrop to the couple’s nuptials in the Ceremony Barn, with blooms by Kate Mell.

“Because the venue is so stunning you can keep décor very simple,” says Charlotte. “I went for lots of eucalyptus and greenery in the Ceremony Barn, and I loved the cluster of three vases with floating candles in, which ran down the aisle.”

Once they were officially wed, the couple and their guests mingled outside in The Courtyard, supping champers and making the most of The Hog & Apple’s generous canapes (among them, miniature steak pies served with miniscule ‘pints’ of ale), before heading into The Grain Shed for a three-course feast. The menu? Ham hock and egg to start, a steak main - “for a fancier spin on a Sunday Roast, which we love,” says Charlotte - and a dessert trio of chocolate brownie, Eton Mess and profiteroles.

Inside The Grain Shed, both round and long tables were used to create a real restaurant feel - offset with yet more greenery and candlelight. “I had seen the layout when I came to look round the venue,” tells Charlotte. “I just loved it: I thought it was something different and I've never been to a wedding where dining tables had been set out like that.”

“I think the greenery on the gantries by Kate Mell Flowers and the hanging tealights just suit The Normans so well: simple yet effective!” says Charlotte.

Pillar candles formed the centrepieces on the couple’s circular tables, while each place setting was marked with a personalised tipple of sloe gin.

Happily, the harvest-friendly climes allowed the loved-up couple to steal some time alone on The Normans farmland - where the talented Chris Milner Photography captured those all-important couple photos. Here are a just few of our favourites…

So many of our guests have said The Normans is the most amazing venue ever – my grandma says she can’t actually describe it to people, because it’s so beautiful! I just wish we could do it all again!
— the oh-so-radiant, Charlotte

SUPPLIERS

BRIDE’S DRESS It’s bliss

BRIDESMAIDS’ DRESSES debenhams

HAIR mark lee hairdressers

MAKE-UP julie mercer

GROOM & groomsmen’s SUITs limehaus

PHOTOGRAPHY chris milner photography

flowers kate mell flowers

FOOD THE HOG & APPLE FOOD CO.

Shakespeare in Love

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Having spent the best part of 2020 and 2021 curled up in the foetal position, sobbing, we haven’t had a great deal of time to update our wonderful wedding blog. It needed something special to shake us out of our malaise, and that something special was Sophie & Dan Shakespeare’s 15-person wedding here at The Normans, last October.

As bride Sophie and groom Dan will testify, it was no easy feat arranging a wedding in the midst of ever-changing Covid-related regulations and restrictions (think: Tier-fears and Lockdown 2.0 looming large). However, with a bit of creative thinking, flexibility and a can-do attitude, Team Shakespeare and Team Normans combined to create something rather special.

Getting wedding ready in the dressing room of The Normans Cottage. lumierephotographic.com

In some respects, a 15-person wedding during a global pandemic is completely different to the many ‘normal’ weddings we’ve hosted at The Normans in ‘normal’ times. In other respects, there is still a heart-warming familiarity to this truncated format.

The day started off, as it always does, with Sophie and her bridesmaid-bubble readying themselves in The Normans Cottage. A special shout out to Amy George Make-up and awesomely talented Amy Elliot Hair. These ladies are not only excellent at what they do, but deserve special mention - like everyone in the wedding industry - for toughing it out in such difficult times.

Bride Sophie couldn’t be more complimentary: “I wanted my bridal party and I to have natural hair [styling] and a natural flawless make-up look that would last all day! The two Amys exceeded all expectations and really helped to create that relaxing bridal pamper experience I had always imagined.”

01 Bride Sophie getting ready in the Covid-secure Normans Cottage. Photo by lumierephotographic.com
Bride Sophie's wedding dress hangs in The Normans Cottage dressing room. lumierephotographic.com
Sophie's Mum's dress waiting for Sophie's Mum in The Normans Cottage dressing room

Meanwhile, groom Dan’s preparations mostly consisted of doting over Guinness, the couple’s trusted four-legged companion…

Groom Dan gets a pep talk from Guinness. lumierephotographic.com

… and yet, he and his groomsmen managed to scrub up rather well. Here they are, below. Dan is dressed in a dapper navy-blue tweed-check suit from Marc Darcy, while the best man and father-of-the-bride and father-of-the-groom wore matching blue herringbone-style suits, all purchased from Jenson Samuel in Skipton.

Dan and his groomsmen arrive at The Normans wedding venue, Yorkshire. lumierephotographic.com.jpg

“The vintage yet sophisticated design was well suited to the rustic nature of The Normans,” explains Sophie, “and the burgundy knitted ties combined well with bridesmaids' dresses.”

“But what was Guinness wearing?!” We hear you cry. Fear not, he was sporting a brand-new tweed collar and matching lead. Nice.

Groom and his Dad. lumierephotographic.com.jpg
Fathers of bride and groom loiter. lumierephotographic.com.jpg

Meanwhile, Sophie was slipping into her stunning La Sposa dress from Bridal Rogue Gallery.

“After months of browsing online, I was yet to see one dress I liked,” she remembers. “Ironically, I found myself scrolling through The Normans blog when I stumbled upon a recommendation for a boutique in York. I booked an early appointment to have a first-time browse and ended up walking out having said yes to the dress - it was pretty much the first wedding purchase! It almost felt too easy!”

“I wanted to go for the elegant yet sophisticated look and I fell in love with the statement piece train and the detailed sparkled lace back,” continues Sophie. “I thought it would glisten against the fairly-lit backdrop of The Normans Ceremony Barn.”

The finishing touches on the dress and Bride Sophie is ready to go. lumierephotographic.com.jpg
Bride Sophie looks stunning ahead of the ceremony. lumierephotographic.com.jpg
One final hug before stepping out to The Normans wedding venue Ceremony Barn. lumierephotographic.com

Speaking of The Normans Ceremony Barn, here it is, below, in all its sparkling glory. You’re welcome.

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“The Normans is a gorgeous venue just as it is, so we only needed to add [a few] personal touches, “ says Sophie. “In keeping with the contemporary rustic vibe, we warmed to a navy, berry and gold colour scheme and opted for wild, natural autumnal floral arrangements from Forge Events.”

A close up of the shimmering candles illuminating the aisle of The Normans wedding venue Ceremony Barn.

As beautiful as The Normans Ceremony Barn was (shout out to Kate Mell Flowers for providing the lanterns), it paled in comparison to stunning Sophie as she walked down the aisle to meet her man Dan.

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Groom Dan takes his position at the end of the aisle. lumierephotographic.com.jpg
We never ceased to be amazed just how 15 people manage to fill our Ceremony Barn. lumierephotographic.com

Having only hosted a handful of weddings in between various Lockdowns, seeing Dan & Sophie exchanging vows in front of our cascading fairy-lights was emotional to say the least. Full credit to the couple for making it happen - it was a privilege to host their ceremony.

Man and wife Dan and Sophie. lumierephotographic.com.jpg
All smiles as Bride Sophie and Groom Dan sign the register. lumierephotographic.com.jpg

Once Dan & Sophie were pronounced man and wife, guests filtered through to the Cow Stalls and the Tack Room Bar for drinks and canapes. The couple, meanwhile, were whisked outside by lovely Laura from Lumiere Photographic for some autumnal shots.

Bride and Groom steal a kiss on the road outside The Normans wedding venue. lumierephotographic.com.jpg
Bride Sophie was well prepared for the wet weather. lumierephotographic.com.jpg
Bride Sophie wins The Normans award for most varied array of facial expressions.  lumierephotographic.com
Bride Sophie with Guinness the dog in The Normans farmhouse courtyard. lumierephotographic.com.jpg

Sophie may have stolen the show (obvs), but her bridesmaids looked fabulous in their dresses from Joys Bella Bridesmaids, near York.

“I chose burgundy, diamond-embellished dresses with a georgette skirt from the Motee Maid Original Collection for my girls,” says Sophie. “I felt these worked really well with my wedding dress. I really wanted my girls to love their dresses but also feel comfortable in them, so each bridesmaid chose their own bodice style. My maid of honour went for an elegant draped cowl neck, while my two bridesmaids went with the same Amelia-style but with delicate straps.”

The Bridesmaid Bubbles takes a sneak peek at Sophie and Dan. lumierephotographic.com.jpg

One advantage of a small, 15-person wedding is that The Normans Team (with the help of Hog & Apple) were easily able to repurpose the Ceremony Barn for the wedding breakfast. This was a first for the venue, but we were so pleased how smoothly the changeover went - it’s definitely something we’ll offer couples who are considering a 15-person wedding and reception as restrictions are eased in coming months.

“The Normans venue is extremely dynamic,” says Sophie. “We chose for the Ceremony Barn to be transformed into our reception area while we enjoyed fizz and canapes in the Cow Stalls.”

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Sophie & Dan opted for a ‘horseshoe’ table arrangement, with their guests seated around the outer edge, looking in. This filled the Ceremony Barn nicely, but, at the same time, remained intimate and sociable - guests were seated in households and/or bubbles, and could easily converse with one another across tables (while maintaining social distancing).

46 The Ceremony Barn dining area as seen from the mezzanine level. lumierephotographic.com.jpg

Meanwhile, candles and decorative items were rearranged to create a divine dining setting.

“We were lucky to be able to repurpose our flowers, our aisle greenery were turned into fabulous table runners, while the registrar's table arrangement made a beautiful statement piece for the top end,” says Sophie.

48 Another shot of the candle arrangement in The Normans Ceremony Barn. lumierephotographic.com.jpg

Being big foodies, Sophie and Dan commissioned Hog & Apple to curate each course.

“We opted for an adventurous, challenging and seasonal menu - the goal was to wow our guests,” explains Sophie. “From mini steak pies and baby pints of beer to a specially made ‘His and Hers’ desserts topped with mesmerising dry ice, every dish complimented the modern rustic vibe we strived to achieve.”

Sophie & Dan finished the evening with Korean-style steamed bao buns and even designed their own ‘His and Hers’ signature cocktails.

Delectable canapes from our catering partner Hog & Apple. lumierephotographic.com.jpg
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39 More tasty treats served up by Hog & Apple. lumierephotographic.com.jpg
50 Stunning Sophie chats to her guests at dinner. lumierephotographic.com.jpg
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51 Guiness holding strong. lumierephotographic.com.jpg
43 We love the colours of this spread of sweet treats. lumierephotographic.com.jpg
41 The Normans award to most obedient dog to ever attend a wedding goes to... lumierephotographic.com.jpg

Although a 15-person wedding wasn’t what Sophie and Dan had in mind when they first booked at The Normans, the couple said they wouldn’t change a thing about their Big (small) Day.

“We are, obviously, a little bias but intimate weddings are the best!” exclaims Sophie. “Relaxed, intimate and romantic, we were able to interact with our guests on a more personal level, spending quality time with them and really sharing every little aspect of the day.”

“Smaller doesn't mean less special,” continues Sophie. “Co-ordinating an event for just 15 was generally less daunting and less stressful than for a wedding of 100-plus - especially when those 15 are your closest friends and family. The tears of our guests spoke a thousand words, every single one of them mentioned afterwards that the atmosphere was so heartfelt, truly unique and incredibly special.”

53 We made a rare exception for sparklers in The Normans Courtyard. lumierephotographic.com.jpg
The Normans team worked tirelessly to help develop our plans in line with ever-changing government guidelines, to the point where we pulled our wedding forward with a week’s notice to avoid the second national lockdown! We would truly recommend The Normans to any couple looking for a gorgeous venue, supportive team and outstanding service.
— Superstar Sophie
56 Here's to the simply stunning couple. lumierephotographic.com.jpg

Suppliers

Bride’s dress La Sposa from Bridal Rogue Gallery

Bridesmaids’ dresseS Motee Maid Original Collection

Hair Amy Elliot Hair

Make-up Amy George

Groom’s suit Marc Darcy

Groomsmen’s suits Jenson Samuel

Photography Lumiere Photographic

Videography Imogen & James

Flowers Forge Events

Food The Hog & Apple Food Co.

Cake JJ BAKES

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