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Rainy-day romance at The Normans

With this year’s wedding season starting earlier than usual, we’ve found it a tad tricky to find the time to update our wondrous wedding blog (thanks for bearing with us!). But we’re slowly finding our feet and we’ll be posting more and more marvellous marriages… But, for the time being, settle in and enjoy the verdant vibes of Emma & Graeme’s summer wedding here at The Normans, captured on camera by photographer Laura Calderwood.

Bride and groom exchange wedding vows in front of fairy lights in The Normans wedding venue Ceremony Barn

As is often the case at The Normans, proceedings started early in the morning in The Cottage

The Normans Cottage at The Normans wedding venue - view from the road

It was in the dressing room that bride Emma entrusted make-up duties to her namesake Emma (Denton).

“Emma specialises in natural ‘glowy’ make-up, which is exactly what I wanted,” says (bride) Emma.

Hair and make-up in The Normans Cottage at The Normans wedding venue

Meanwhile, unable to find a hairstylist named Emma (just imagine!), bride Emma commissioned in the excellent Hannah Taylor to beautify bobs.

“I loved my hair on the day,” says Emma. “It was important to me that my bridesmaids all felt comfortable, so they all picked different hairstyles and Hannah smashed every single one!”

Make-up artist Emma Denton with bride in The Normans Cottage at The Normans wedding venue
Bride Emma in The Normans Cottage at The Normans wedding venue.
Bride Emma looks stunning in The Normans Cottage at The Normans wedding venue

Bouquets for the bridal party were arranged by florist Kate Mell - we love the simplicity and timelessness of these white roses.

Wedding flowers by Kate Mell for Emma and Graeme's wedding at The Normans

Emma’s stunning bridal gown was the handiwork of designer Mark Lesley and procured from Confetti & Lace.

“I always knew the style I was going for - fitted with a low back!” says Emma. “It fit the bill perfectly, and as soon as I tried it on I instantly felt more confident. I did think I would go for a completely plain front but a bit of subtle sparkle at the top helped me feel a bit more special for the Big Day!”

Beautiful bride Emma framed greenery constructed by Kate Mell

Bridesmaids, meanwhile, were dressed in something blue.

Bridesmaids in The Normans Cottage at The Normans wedding venue

“I spent nearly a year searching for the ‘perfect’ shade of blue I'd envisioned for the bridesmaids’ dresses since we booked the venue!” recounts Emma.” Eventually, I found them on ASOS. I'm glad I persevered as the colour looks amazing in photos.”

It certainly does, Emma, it certainly does…

Bride and bridesmaids at The Normans wedding venue

Contrary to what we tell couples when they first view the venue: it does rain in North Yorkshire (sometimes). But the wet weather didn’t dampen spirits and Emma and her bridesmaids were happy to brave the elements en route to The Ceremony Barn.

Emma and groom Graeme decided to keep thinks simple in the Ceremony Barn - enlisting the mad skills or florist Kate Mell to build this lush foliage archway, which provided a perfect pop of greenery in amidst the flickering candles and twinkling fairy lights.

Florist Kate Mell designed this floral archway in The Normans wedding venue Ceremony Barn

“We were unsure whether to include the foliage archway in the Ceremony Barn,” explains Emma. “In the end, we opted to go for it and it's one of the best last-minute decisions we made! It looked absolutely stunning and we also had to use [the Ceremony Barn] more than we had anticipated due to the rubbish weather on the day, so all our photos were taken inside and it was a great feature!”

The Normans Ceremony Barn at The Normans wedding venue. Floral archway by Kate Mell

Indeed, the archway was the first stop on Emma’s journey down the aisle - arm in arm with proud dad Gary…

Bride walks down the aisle in The Normans Ceremony Barn

Once she reached her destination, Gary gave her away to groom-in-waiting Graeme. Who, we now realise, hasn’t had much of a mention thus far! (Sorry Graeme.)

Bride Emma rocks the aisle in The Normans wedding venue Ceremony Barn
Bride meets groom at the top of the aisle in the Ceremony Barn at The Normans wedding venue
Exchanging marriage vows in The Normans wedding Ceremony Barn
Bride and groom marry in The Normans wedding venue Ceremony Barn
Bride and groom in The Ceremony Barn at The Normans wedding venue

Needless to say, Graeme looked suitably dashing in a nice marine navy check suit, with double-breasted waistcoat by Marc Darcy and purchased from Joshua Adams.

“It didn't take Graeme long to pick his suit as he loved this one as soon as he tried it on,” says Emma. “The groomsmen have the same suit which looks very smart in the photos.”

Bride and groom framed by floral archway by florist Kate Mell

Once the couple were married in front of their 66 day guests, they were lucky to get a break in the weather and were able to enjoy canapes (courtesy of F4D) in the Courtyard.

After a couple of hours of nibbles, drinks and photos, the Grain Shed doors were opened and guests were guided in by way of this bespoke table plan.

The table plan greets wedding guests as they enter the Grain Shed at The Normans wedding venue

Emma and Graeme had opted for our rustic banqueting tables, set out in four rows with a top table. The outer two rows featured the gantries lined with foliage, which worked wonderfully as it gave height to the greenery.

Florist Kate Mell used candles and greenery to decorate The Normans wedding venue Grain Shed dining room
Rustic banqueting tables in The Normans wedding venue Grain Shed dining area
The top table set for the wedding breakfast at The Normans wedding venue

The cake, by the wonderful Where The Ribbon Ends, was another head-turner - and the artful silhouette topper had something of a significant meaning to the couple.

Wedding cake by Where the Ribbon Ends displayed in the Grain Shed at The Normans wedding venue

“Our dog Reggie was also supposed to make an appearance at the wedding, but had an operation the day before so was unable to be there!” explains Emma. “We featured him on our cake topper instead and made sure he was in some of the photos we printed out and displayed in the Cow Stalls, so those were small details which were special to us.”

The wedding breakfast highlights included barbecue sharing boards and pork belly. And once the delectable dishes had been consumed, speeches were made.

Wedding guests enjoy the speeches at The Normans wedding venue

Soon enough, guests congregated around the dance floor for Emma and Graeme’s first dance.

Bride and groom and first dance at The Normans wedding venue

And, before long, the rest of the guests were coaxed onto the dancefloor, by the sweet sounds of The Wilde Ones - an aesthetically (and acoustically) pleasing band who look as though they’ve walked off the set of Twilight (the boys are, in fact, from the Jonny Ross Music agency).

Dancing the night away at The Normans wedding venue
Dancing the night away at The Normans wedding venue

“The Normans is the most perfect venue and we fell in love with it from the minute we first looked round,” says Emma in a heartfelt tribute to The Normans (which we’re more than happy to print in full). “The whole experience with the team was amazing - they made the planning experience feel completely stress free, from our last minute queries, which were never too much trouble, right up to re-scheduling the whole date thanks to Covid! Everything about the service felt so genuine and personal.”

You guys!

Bride and groom in The Normans wedding venue Cow Stalls
So many of our guests said it’s the most beautiful wedding venue they’ve ever been to.
— The most excellent Emma

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Men of the moment at The Normans

It’s been a while since we posted on our world-renowned* wedding blog. There are a number of excuses: last year’s busy festive schedule, an Omicron scare, and, most of all, our insane children.

But we’re back with a vengeance, kicking off 2022 with, erm, a throwback to 2021. Bear with us, because this wedding was an absolute belter…

The stars of our story are Liam & Nima, two handsome chaps from Leeds who were lucky enough to hold their wedding on its original date after a year and a half of uncertainty. And what a wedding it was…

*not world-renowned

 
The gorgeous grooms exchange personalised vows exchanged in front of cascading fairy lights. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Nima (left) and Liam (right) exchange personalised vows. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

 

The couple’s attention to detail ensured that all senses were satisfied - sight, smell and sound… and suits!

“We spent rather a long time looking for suits and went to many shops (both high street and bespoke), but we struggled to find suits that would fit the rustic theme of the venue and not make us look like we were off grouse shooting!” says Nima.

Groom Liam dressing to impress in The Normans Cottage at The Normans wedding venue. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Groom Liam dressing to impress in The Normans Cottage. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Groomsmen getting ready outside The Normans Cottage at The Normans wedding venue. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Groomsmen getting ready outside The Normans Cottage. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Drinks before the marriage ceremony at The Normans

Double parked. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

A few drinks to steady the nerves in The Normans Cottage at The Normans wedding venue. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

And breathe… Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Wedding favours at The Normans wedding venue

Personalised Lego men were exchanged before the ceremony. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Happily, Liam and Nima eventually found the perfect suits at the ever-reliable Moss Bros: stylish slim-fit three-piece tweed suits in a lovely shade of sage for themselves, and a deeper brown for groomsmen. (Usually, our hearts sink when groom and groomsmen turn up at a summer wedding wearing tweed - dying of heat exhaustions isn’t a good look on a wedding day! But Liam and Nima dodged this bullet by choosing a nice lightweight fabric with a slim-fit cut.)

The grooms share a tender moment before the marriage ceremony at The Normans wedding venue. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Choosing the groomsmaids’ dresses, meanwhile, involved several Zoom fashion shows and, according to Nima, lots of online orders and returns during various lockdowns. However, the ladies finally settled for these beautiful designs from Coast.

“We found them early on, luckily, as we certainly weren't looking forward to hours of dress shopping! They were stunning though, somehow managed to suit all three girls … and were in the sale!” laughs Nima.

 
The groomsmaids looking stunning before the wedding at The Normans wedding venue

The groomsmaids looking stunning before the ceremony. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

 

And so, to the venue…

“We had a strong idea of what we wanted,” says Nima. “But we didn't know how to execute it. Luckily, armed with a few ideas and photos, we had a quick and efficient meeting with brilliant florist Kate Mell. She was great and we would recommend her to anybody getting married at The Normans - especially because of the bespoke floral options she has for the venue.”

Welcome sign  at The Normans wedding venue

Handmade wooden signage greeted guests on arrival. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Card box  at The Normans wedding venue

We love this card box made from a suitcase. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Flowers aside, much of the venue's aesthetic and vibe was down to stylist Emily K.

“Emily executed everything so well - to a standard we could just never have done ourselves,” says Nima. “She did the beautiful entrance sign and the card box.”

Time to tie the knot at The Normans wedding venue

Time to tie the knot. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Congregating in the Farmhouse Courtyard before the ceremony at The Normans wedding venue. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Congregating in the Farmhouse Courtyard before the ceremony. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

The rustic Ceremony Barn  at The Normans wedding venue

The rustic Ceremony Barn at The Normans wedding venue. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

The couple’s personal, heartfelt ceremony was conducted by super celebrant Deborah Page.

“She went out of her way to write us a ceremony that meant so much to us,” says Nima. “There wasn’t a dry eye in the house. We were so glad we went with the option of a personalised ceremony officiated by a celebrant.”

Marriage ceremony  at The Normans wedding venue

A traditional Persian sugar-rubbing ritual. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Marriage ceremony  at The Normans wedding venue
Marriage ceremony  at The Normans wedding venue
 
Marriage ceremony  at The Normans wedding venue

A ceremony to remember at The Normans. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

“During the ceremony, we had a marriage canopy put above us with my ‘unmarried’ cousin sprinkling sugar over us to represent sweetness,” explains Nima.

As per Persian tradition, the grooms were asked three times if they wanted to get married. Each time, Nima said no, holding out for a gift from Liam. When Liam finally offered the ‘gift of marriage’, Nima said yes. The couple then fed one another a dab of honey, which represent a lifetime of sharing, sustenance and sweetness together. Beautiful.

The grooms walk back up the aisle in The Normans Ceremony Barn. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Liam and Nima walk back up the aisle in The Normans Ceremony Barn. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Aside from the stunning aesthetics and emotional ceremony, guests couldn’t help compliment the grooms on the smell of the venue. The serene scents were a result of a close collaboration with Emily K, who sourced scented oils for the wedding day.

Our friends we told [about the scented oils] found it hilarious and teased us about it, but a lot of people complimented the smell and now we have candles made to remind us of the big day!” says Nima.

Delicious canapes served by Hog & Apple. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Canapes by Hog & Apple

Champagne on ice for drinks reception at The Normans wedding venue. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Champagne on ice. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Canapes to kill for by The Hog & Apple at The Normans wedding venue.  Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Canapes to kill for by The Hog & Apple. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Guests are served drinks at pop-up bar in The Courtyard at The Normans wedding venue. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Guests are served drinks at pop-up bar. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Once the ceremony had finished, guests followed the grooms outside into The Courtyard for canapes to kill for by The Hog & Apple Food Co, and a soundtrack courtesy of The Paul Young Folk Duo…

Leafy views in The Normans Courtyard in The Normans wedding venue. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Leafy views in The Normans Courtyard. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Music at The Normans wedding venue. Leafy views in The Normans Courtyard. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Paul Young Folk Duo provide the soundtrack for the reception. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

We love a good old group shot in The Courtyard at The Normans wedding venue. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

The Courtyard at The Normans wedding venue. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

After a couple of hours of mingling, guests were called in for the wedding breakfast; guided into the Grain Shed by this stunning table plan, styled by Emily K.

Table plan illuminated by our beaded chandelier at The Normans wedding venue.  Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Table plan illuminated by the beaded chandelier. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Guests were guided in by the table plan. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Guests were guided in by the table plan. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Emily was also responsible for the place settings and table arrangements, but hats off to the boys who spent hours planning, ordering and putting together bespoke Lego figures for all of their 125 guests!

“Our guests absolutely loved them,” says Nima, “The figures made for great souvenirs.”

Beautifully appointed place settings at The Normans wedding venue. Photo by Sugarbird

Beautifully appointed place settings. Photo by Sugarbird

Perfect place settings at The Normans wedding venue. Photo by Sugarbird Photography
Pride by way of Lego at The Normans wedding venue. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Pride by way of Lego. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

“We also spent a lot of time writing and making bespoke Cards Against Humanity for each table, including answers designed for each table, with in-jokes and stories from school or university. Apparently they went down very well!”

 
Ready for dinner at The Normans wedding venue. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Ready for dinner. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

 

H&A pulled out the stops with a Middle Eastern-style mezze board for starter - a mix of lamb kebabs with hummus and labneh.

“While not necessarily ‘authentic’ Persian, it was still a nod to Nima's heritage and something that was important to us,” says Liam.

The 'main' was the ‘lamb three ways’, which featured two beautiful cuts of perfectly cooked lamb, a lamb pastilla, beautiful vegetable sides, rounded off with an artichoke puree.

The wedding breakfast at The Normans. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

The wedding breakfast at The Normans. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Super speeches at The Normans wedding venue

Super speeches. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

After the speeches, the couple had chance to steal away with their photographer James, aka Sugarbird Photography, and take advantage of the beautiful sunset.

Liam and Nima enjoy a quiet moment outside The Normans wedding venue. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Liam and Nima enjoy a quiet moment outside. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Fantastic couple photos in one of the farm buildings at The Normans wedding venue. Photo by Sugarbird Photograph

We love the lighting of this awesome shot. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

A quiet stroll in the countryside around The Normans wedding venue. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

A quiet stroll in the countryside. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Back inside, an artful tower of macaroons awaited the grooms, while glassware was readied for after-dinner cocktails.

“We ordered a cocktail for every guest after dinner. Three different types, each named with a nod to Nima’s love of Britney - 'Every-time Espresso Martinis', 'Oops... Old Fashioneds' and 'Circus Cosmos',” explains Liam.

 
Marvellous macaroons take the place of cake. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Marvellous macaroons take the place of cake. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

 
 
Let them eat cake - sorry - macaroons at The Normans wedding venue. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Let them eat cake - sorry - macaroons. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

 

Dancefloor derring-do began with a ‘knife dance’ - a Persian wedding tradition where a newly married couple have to ‘earn the knife’ (quite literally pay money) to cut the cake.

“This stems back from a centuries-old tradition where men would return from the battlefield and, as part of their celebrations, ‘paid women of the harem’ would dance with the battle swords,” explains Nima.

Persian knife dance to kick of the evening at The Normans wedding venue. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Persian knife dance to kick of the evening. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

A traditional Persian knife dance at The Normans wedding venue. Photo by Sugarbird Photography
The Persian knife dance at The Normans wedding venue. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

From here on, the dance floor was packed all evening - largely thanks to the couple’s bespoke wedding playlist.

“We are control freaks so we opted for a set playlist so we knew exactly what was going to be played!” laughs Liam. “We also had an Iranian music segment with all the Iranian party classics… and I don't think the dancefloor was ever not full... especially for Nima's 'Work Bitch' performance, which he’s famous for cracking out at parties and nights outs. There was a lot of pressure for him to nail it for the wedding!”

Trust us. He nailed it.

Nima leads the way on the dance floor at The Normans wedding venue. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Nima leads the way on the dance floor. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Shake it like a Polaroid picture at The Normans wedding venue. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Shake it like a Polaroid picture. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Dance til you drop at The Normans wedding venue. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

Dance til you drop. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

The Normans is an incredible venue... The team’s comms were always super speedy and useful - we never had to stress about the venue itself. Thank you again!
— Men of the moment, Liam & Nima

The grooms share a tender moment at The Normans wedding venue. Photo by Sugarbird Photography

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Food The Hog & Apple Food Co.

Flowers Kate Mell

Photos Sugarbird Photography

Venue styling Emily K Weddings

Celebrant True to You Celebrancy

Reception music Paul Young

Grooms and groomsmen’s suits Moss Bros

Groomsmaids dresses Coast

DJ equipment hire Night Owls